Everyone I know and love is insane. My dearest friends are always joining the army, the CIA, the mafia, the Socialists, the Nazis, or the Greens. If I only like people, they ask me to defend the rights of rodents in laboratories, or to speak on behalf of Nicaraguan women refugees, or to promulgate the virtues of High Arts. I dont care a damn about rodent rights, people Ive never seen, and artsy garbage I never buy. Do you think Id have any rights in a laboratory? At Einstein Medical Center in Philadelphia last week they hacked out half of my best friend Sids upper cerebrum to save his life. But it was a mistake. They only had to drop the temperature of his brain to stop the swelling "edema," they said. He didnt have a lawyer... But, here I am, President of Animal Rights. I am an idiot a political idiot.
I dont know. I just dont know.
Dont mind me for my generation "dont know" was the Eleventh Commandment. So if I say I "dont know," its a form of prayer... I dont know
.It could be worse. I couldve married one of my ex-es from the `80s (pronounced "Ai-Ds"), especially one... Im lucky she didnt get IT for me while she was not yet Out. (Okay, Im exaggerating -- closeted lesbians have the lowest incidence of AIDS of almost any group anyway.) But why couldnt I find someone who is not:
(1) a victim of the latest dance craze or most fatal drug.
(2) an in-closet lesbian finding her way out with or without a bisexual past.
(3) a skeptic about marriage and love but not sex. (I can still hear that one say, you have to believe in something.)
(4) an offspring of a single-parent-home or an obsessed Wagnerian opera fan.
(5) a racist about too many races (though for a break-up, one will do).
(6) an unhappily attached woman looking for leverage on an indifferent lover.
(7) or the one Ill call Godzilla just to protect her true identity... (There was nothing immediately wrong with Godzilla, but I began having doubts when she mentioned being in love but torn between both of these men neither of them me, incidentally.)
I dont mean to suggest that the women in my life fell into any one of these categories. One of them was as few as two she was 6 and 4. The oldest one was 1, 3 and 4. Another was 2, 3 and 6. The worst was 2, 3, 5 and 6 (she was the first). What a catastrophe! Never mind. No, I mean, I dont know...
Sorry, I have to make these mental lists to recall what I do know because, you know, once I was with this really nice woman in a little cafe swapping worst-relationship stories, and she said how sorry she felt for a friend whose wife had just left him to become a totally out lesbian. "He was so distraught, it was such a blow to his ego. Did you ever hear anything like it?..." And there I was all sympathy saying how sad it was. But then it clicked!
"Oh, yeah I just remembered it it happened to me too."
Occasionally, it dawns on me that women are as insane as men are, but they dont have as many acceptable outlets for it. Its this Oh-so-little-town-of-Bethlehem syndrome too... Where else could you know every single actor, dancer, painter, poet, musician, composer, performance artist, virtuoso, jazzman, diva, choreographer, photographer, sculptor, writer, rocker, folksinger and playwright? Im sick of being totally cross-referenced. No, I dont want to know the name of that blond prostitute on my street. Shes the only person left who I dont know.
(Okay, it was Barbara, I admit it. But I only know this because a poet told me. Who else would know?)
Where else could I be a candidate for a splinter group like Animal Rights?... Ha!
Not that Im not well qualified....
What am I talking about?!
Never mind, ...never mind....
Speaking of which. Sids a vegetable, now.
I dont know... No, thats my empirical scientific side talking. I remember what its like to be treated like an animal, a mindless thing. My parents photographed me when I was less than a year old once. They laughed and smiled and cunningly teased and distracted me on the bed until they were able to sneak back and spread that giant chrome parabolic mirror like a fan. Then the lightning-colored FLASH blazed and blinded me so badly that it hurt my eyes and head. It wasnt funny anymore, that is, to me. But they thought this was even more amusing as I pouted toward agonized tears, so they laughed. I realized then that I had been set up. I didnt have any words in my head, let alone my mouth, but I knew... I knew theyd tricked me, and that they didnt care, because they did it again. FLASH! That did it I cried like an H-bomb. I still have the pictures too, but nobody believes I could remember this in my so-called pre-linguistic animal stage.
Well, almost nobody. There was one person who could use it against me.
I never should have told Mary, the former President of Animal Rights, because when I did, she immediately burst out:
"Thats how they treat animals!"
"Wha ?" I said, unsuspecting of her slightly drunk manner.
"Im so happy you know you know how animals feel!"
"Whore you calling an animal?"
"John I always thought you were selfish. Until now!" She gushed with regret.
Though she was warm, disarming and pretty, Mary had this stodgy sense of Homogenized Good and Unwashed Evil. Until that moment, Id been half-way between two mutually exclusive worlds. I didnt fit into the universe as she knew it, so she feared, admired, condemned and cajoled me. Until then, that is. If she hadnt been drinking, shed never have talked me into running for president. She made it sound so goddamn noble yet glamorous, righteous yet perverse. For once, I was able to sympathize. What a catastrophe.
My first meeting was one of the most surreal events of my life. That was where I was nominated by Mary. I never saw anything like them before. The moment I walked in to their congregation I felt unbearably guilty. I cant explain the aura, but it was heavy like syrup in the air of the little library lounge filled with paintings of birds and natural history books. But there was nothing sweet about them. They were so much older than me; even their little kids seemed older than me. I felt like throwing up.
Incidentally, they had come together not only to nominate candidates but to screen a film full of the horrors of industrial farming. Some of these brave volunteers had gone off to film chicks being mutilated in ways I cant retell. Some of the scenes seemed to overplay these tortures with a voyeuristic fascination that made me feel even more revulsion. Even though I, unlike Mary, was an actual vegetarian, I felt intolerable guilt because the narrator of the movie detailed horror after horror after horror.
They had that kind of authority in their worn-out eyes. They were Robert Frost without any bucolic farm imagery. They were terrifying in their pain and their gift for telling others what was right. And there was a monastic pallor in their complexions. Of course, that could have been due to (the again bankrupt) Bethlehem Steel kicking unregistered chemical waste into the atmosphere of the Lehigh Valley where it would hang in layers of entrapped humidity, thus effecting all the people of Bethlehem. (But those arent violations of animal rights, so never mind....)
Anyway, Mary seemed so human by contrast to the others that when she touched my arm and asked, "You okay?"
I said, "Sure." What a catastrophe.
But the real loss wasnt mine but Sids. He lost his sentient life because of an industrial accident at Bethlehem Steel.... Of course, there were no brain surgeons in this little town. He was flown by Med-Evac to Einstein Medical in Philadelphia, the real world. All I lost was my faith in Bethlehem. I dont know....
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